In Her Own Words
About her
At 49, I’ve reached a stage in life where I truly value meaningful connection, good conversation, shared laughter and creating beautiful memories with the right person. Friends would describe me as elegant, warm-hearted, emotionally intelligent and quietly adventurous — equally happy dressing up for a wonderful dinner as I am enjoying a peaceful countryside escape or spontaneous weekend abroad.
I have a love for travel, culture, cosy Sunday mornings, music, beautiful scenery and discovering hidden gems both at home and overseas. I enjoy keeping active, long walks, good wine, stylish places with character, and spending time with people who are kind, grounded and genuine. I appreciate thoughtful gestures, strong values, good manners and a man who knows how to enjoy life without unnecessary drama.
About her ideal match
I’m looking for a best friend and partner to share life with — someone affectionate, emotionally mature, financially secure, respectful and ready for a relationship built on trust, laughter, chemistry and companionship. A man who enjoys travelling, making plans together, and understands that the best relationships feel peaceful, supportive and exciting all at once.
Life has taught me to appreciate the simple luxuries: good health, meaningful conversation, loyalty, romance and waking up excited for what’s still ahead. I believe love should feel effortless, uplifting and full of mutual respect.
If you’re a gentleman with a kind heart, a curious mind and a desire to build something real with the right woman, we may have quite a lot in common.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Botswana | |
Location: |
Basildon, Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
49 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African descent | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Other | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 5" (164cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Self-employed | ||
Income: |
Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Country & Western; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Photography; Reading; Shopping |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Athletics; Bowling; Boxing; Camping; Cycling; Dance; Football (Soccer); Golf; Motorsport; Rock climbing; Running; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking; Weight training; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |