In Her Own Words
About her
I am a thoughtful, grounded person who values honesty, kindness, and meaningful connections.
Life has taught me resilience, and I’m at a stage where I appreciate calm moments as much as new experiences.
I enjoy good conversations, learning, and spending time with people who are open-minded and emotionally mature.
I approach life with curiosity and quiet courage, and I believe it’s never too late to begin again. I’m looking for a genuine connection built on respect, communication, and shared values—something real, steady, and meaningful.
If you enjoy thoughtful conversations, laughter, and building something sincere together, I’d be happy to get to know you.
About her ideal match
My ideal match is someone kind, emotionally mature, and comfortable with who they are. I value honesty, good communication, and mutual respect, and I’m drawn to a person who enjoys an active, healthy lifestyle.
I’d love to meet someone who enjoys travelling—whether that’s exploring new places, discovering different cultures, or simply enjoying a change of scenery. I appreciate someone who takes care of themselves, values balance, and enjoys simple pleasures like walking, good food, and time outdoors.
Most of all, I’m looking for a genuine connection built on shared values, curiosity, and a desire to move forward together.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
City of London (London), London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Orthodox |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district SE6 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
56 - 63 | ||
Star sign: |
Taurus; Cancer; Virgo; Scorpio | ||
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Independent; Optimistic; Quiet; Sensible; Thoughtful; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Instrumental; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Reggae |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Self-help |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Romance |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Greek; Seafood |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free; Lactose-free; Sugar-free |
Pace of Life: |
Stressed |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Family size: |
I don't have any family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |