In His Own Words
About him
Recently widowed, I'm slowly getting used to living alone - I dont like this lonely side of life as it is - I think what I miss most is the "quiet togetherness" that couples have, or had.
I keep myself pretty well occupied most of the time with the garden and house , I do voluntary work one day a week, and am a member of the ramblers, also local clubs and the NT
I tend not to read much at the moment, though that may change and prefer radio 4 over TV for news coverage.
Lived and worked abroad for a number of years, and travelled extensively, particularly around SE Asia
I would like to meet someone who has similar interests to me, though thats not a necessity, a friend would be a good start.
About his ideal match
That's pretty impossible to describe - someone who shares common interests and philosophy of life with mine, who feels comfortable in my company and vice versa, and who appreciates some quiet time together
I'm comfortable talking, don't appreciate constant messaging, perhaps arrange an initial meeting, see how it goes and take it from there, if we both agree
Ideally within a reasonable driving distance to enable a mutually convenient venue to be agreed, though that's not set in stone
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Dorchester, Dorset, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
81 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district DT2 (Dorchester) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
69 - 79 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 9" (176cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
None |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Folk; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction; History |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Black & White / Silent; Documentary; Drama; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Gardening; Healthy living; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Cricket; Football (Soccer); Rugby; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |










