In His Own Words
About him
I am individualistic, I cannot follow like sheep. I would always ask too many questions. Ive always been non agressive both verbally and physically and am only assertive when i need to clarify or avoid misunderstandings. I have a sensitive caring attitude and have been told i am a good listener. I love written or verbal communication. I consider myself easy to please, but am strongly opposed to argumentative, controlling or agressive individuals and avert such people in my life.
I am sensitive to all life and quite literally wouldn't hurt a fly, ant or spider and have been a vegetarian for some time. I have a weird sense of humour, a little deadpan, but people who are arrogant or deliberately make fun of others or who are sarcastically orientated are a major turnoff for me.
About his ideal match
Someone who is thoughtful, caring, has a wee bit of common sense and loyal. Someone who would want to share friendship first and only mutually more perhaps in the future. Someone who isnt afraid to speak their mind. Someone that doesnt take things for granted and someone who has empathy built into their core being. Willing to see things from other perspectives. Hopefully not selfish to the extent of not sharing their last chip with me (as long as they havent put too much salt on it). Someone that values themselves and wants to feel a mutual potential in being a sole mate.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Enfield, London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Red | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
51 - 69 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 4" (163cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Daring; Easygoing; Loving; Melancholy; Optimistic; Philosophical; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV programmes: |
Sci-Fi |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Badminton; Chess; Squash; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I don't have any family |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Once a month |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |

