In Her Own Words
About her
I’m a single professional woman and mother whose children are on the cusp of independence and now looking to dedicate more time to explore the joys of life with like minded and honest free soul.
If you enjoy walking, seeking out interesting places, travelling to places beyond the British isles, good food from all nations, give me a nudge and we can see where that will take us?
About her ideal match
My ideal man is a God fearing honest human being. No airs or pretences; happy to live and let live and most importantly, treat me like a lady. Yes, I guess I am old school 🥰. Of course you can expect no less from me. I’ll make you my king 😍🤭
I would really appreciate someone who can clean up after themselves. If you enjoy sharing household stuff from cooking to clearing the garden, movies and theatre, entertaining to chilling in front of the box some nights, we’re likely to hit it off.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Nigeria | |
Location: |
Banstead (South Croydon), Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Legal | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African descent | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Italian | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 10 miles of postcode district CR2 (South Croydon) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English; French; Italian | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
Other |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Business; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Game shows; Motoring; Movie Channels; News; Reality shows; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Documentary; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Acting; Cooking; Healthy living; Investing; Music; Painting; Politics; Shopping; Singing; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Athletics; Boxing; Dance; Ice Skating; Motorsport; Running; Skiing; Snooker; Swimming; Tennis; Triathlon; Walking; Wrestling; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Power; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic; Excited; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Very |
