In Her Own Words
About her
Update September 2026
Well, I’m still in Australia, and it seems that I will be so for an indefinite period. I find myself on the receiving end of that dreaded “curveball” they talk about! Life is full of challenges, isn’t it.
However, a 🇦🇺 ✈️ 🇬🇧 trip or two at some stage remains firmly on my wish list.
I'd love a penpal! (I knowww.. not a popular preference).. anywhere in the world .. that would be super.
Update 28 January 2026 .. Australia is TOO HOT (49 degrees Celsius today - that's 120 in the old language)... I want to come back!
Update December 2025 - back here in the Land Down Under. While family time here is pure gold, I really miss London. Alas, those missed opportunities… *sigh*..
Hello. I'm a quiet-ish, happy, somewhat whimsical (but also perfectly capable of being serious and logical when necessary) person who would love to meet others for social activities such as coffee, conversation, dining out, cinema, walking & exploring
I was "Made in Scotland" and born in Australia, which has resulted in a tendency to wander the planet. I did have vague travel plans until the "P-word" put a stop to all that in early 2020.
The ideal life situation for me would be the chance to have a base in Australia for the cooler part of the year and and a base somewhere in UK/Europe for the remainder of the year. Yes, I'm one of those strange people who follow the clouds, not the sun.
I'm passionately involved in a humanitarian project, which I work on at home, as often as I can, but with the flexibility to shut down my computer and take off on an adventure anytime the mood strikes me.
I don't have a car, much preferring to relax on a train while travelling to meet you! I love London, and haven't seen enough of it.
I also really enjoy hopping on buses and going.. anywhere and everywhere.. towns, cities, exploring lanes and alleyways, markets, and rounding out the day with a pub lunch/dinner and nice company.
About her ideal match
An "ideal match" is not something I really think about - just nice, funny, quiet-ish, gentle, happy people. I think I've said it all above and below.
To those of you who state that they prefer their ideal match to be younger than themselves - ahh well, you did sound nice too, dammit. Are you sure you haven't just forgotten to update your preferences? No? Oh well, no worries, it was nice reading your profile :-)
I sincerely hope that we all find what we're looking for and live happily ever after. Wouldn't that be the best thing xx.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Australia | |
Location: |
Geelong, Victoria, Australia | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
76 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Other | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
75 - 85 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Funny; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Other |
Hair style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Jazz; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Internet; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Dance; Football (Soccer); Snooker; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; Indian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Disorganised |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Retirement plans: |
Enjoying the comforts of home |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |





