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Dragonfly13

59 – Redhill (COULSDON), Surrey, England

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Dragonfly13

59 – Redhill (COULSDON), Surrey, England

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In Her Own Words

About her

This is the difficult bit. How to give a true reflection of me, to people I don’t know. Words flow much more easily if you know who you are talking to. However, in summary, and from the feedback I get from the world in general, I’m pretty OK. Tall, but pretty OK.
At my best, I am a great friend, funny, loyal, conscientious, fairly capable and a jack of all trades. However, if someone is tailgating me or driving with their mirrors pointing at their face and not the road, I can be quite crotchety. I can also be very nice – which leads me to end up volunteering for all sorts of things. Some of it is actually fun, such as conservation work for the wildlife trust. Litter picking is a mixed bag – very satisfying clearing it up – very annoying that it needs doing to start with.
Being outdoors, walking, or visiting places of interest, are my go-to pleasures. Terrified of heights, so gave paragliding a go and abseiled off the ArcelorMittal Orbit in London. Won’t be doing the abseiling again. I dabble in arts and crafts, enjoy good films, live music, theatre and comedy nights. And always up for new experiences.

About her ideal match

Looking for someone who can bring new experiences, ideas and insights to my space in this world – and who equally is open to the same in return. Intelligence, humour and an interest in people and the world around us, would prick up my ears. Life – and we’ve all had some of that - has taught me that two-way respect, emotional intelligence, openness and an ability to laugh at yourself are important to the sort of relationship I want.
I am used to being pretty self-sufficient and independent, so wouldn’t want anyone taking over my life or being needy. But “man” is not an island, so someone who wants to be on my team would be welcomed with open arms.
Being the current owner of a pair of, at least slightly, muddy walking boots is a basic requirement (spotless, white trainers unnerve me). I like and need to be physically active, but if you are super-fit and bristling in stamina, I may be lagging behind a little. Life is ever more about things being in balance.
Being too prescriptive feels wrong. The bottom line would be for us to have similar values, to enjoy some healthy banter but to also learn from each other, to make each other laugh and smile, and - most importantly - have the chemistry that brings that much sought after “va va voom”.

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Redhill (COULSDON), Surrey, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
59
Star sign:
Pisces
Height:
5' 11" (180cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Above Average
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University / College student
Occupation:
Financial services
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
German
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district CR5 (Coulsdon)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
51 - 64
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Black/African descent; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent
Home language:
English; Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Italian; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Spanish; Swedish; Welsh
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Daring; Faithful; Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness
Fashion sense:
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms)
Favourite colour:
Green
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Curly; Out of control; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Alternative; Dance / Disco; Rock
Reading:
I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fiction
TV habits:
I watch television every day
TV programmes:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Comedy; Drama; Independent; Mystery
Interests:
Board games; Gardening; Meditation; Music; The arts; Voluntary work
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Athletics; Badminton; Birdwatching; Bowling; Cycling; Dance; Gymnastics; Hiking; Swimming; Table Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; Yoga
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Chinese; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time online:
I check in once a day
Family size:
I've got brothers
Family contact:
I rarely see them
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Dog(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Cat(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence
The deep stuff
Dream home:
In the country
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Politics:
Right of centre
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating:
Hopeful
Honesty:
Extremely