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SolitudeStanding

55 – Hillingdon, London, England

“We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are” Anaïs Nin

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In Her Own Words

About her

Writer, foodie, trade union and human rights activist. Although what pays the bills is a public sector job. A virulent coffee snob, with a cinema addiction and underlying music obsessions. Theatre and Opera? Name scenes...A language lover and a travelling aficionado. A blackhearted pirate and tattooed viking and ardent reader. No fan of Tories or spiders or control freaks; or indeed controlling Tory voting spiders...however am a massive fan of Liverpool Football Club; but will sway away from the beautiful game for lots of kissing served with or without breakfast in bed (brunch?) will tick cocktails Prosecco, good whisky, craft ale wine or Earl Grey. And I will cook with it for you as long as chat to me while I chop. I am always cruelty free and have no time for judgement. I carry a deep dark wit but steer clear of schadenfreude. Flakiness produces hives but a little indecision is human. Imperfection is always appreciated. As are random or planned public displays of affection. Pick the bits of this that suit platonic if that’s what you want and I’m more open to that currently. By the way, my baggage was lost at the airport.

About her ideal match

You will not think daydreaming silly and you may even love it. You have impeccable table manners in public but at home you secretly lick plates and eat spoons of honey/marmite/nutella while trying to interupt with political comment on radio 4. You read everything and your guilty pleasure is wet Sunday films or turning the zoom camera off to text a friend or arrange a night out or lunch in. You like ice cream. If more than friends then you also love kissing. At our age I expect a little residual angst from a past love or indeed loves who did you wrong but I'm not their competion or your get out of jail free card I do not rebound very well either. I'm better with limitations and boundaries then unrealistic projections. We all make mistakes but if you are prepared to graduate I'm in. Kindness because that is the doorway to possibility and understanding. Being able to say yes to weird and wonderful suggestions of adventure or alone time comfortable with luxury and a bit of grime you will not suffer fools gladly but a maybe a fool for love and care. You will have integrity, but know that I think truth is overrated as no one seems to agree a definition so I prefer honesty clarity upfront stand or sitting point and make me laugh till I forget my name.

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Hillingdon, London, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
55
Star sign:
Gemini
Height:
5' 7" (170cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Black
Eye colour:
Brown
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; Something casual
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Occasionally
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Public sector
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
Other
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
East Sussex; London - Inner; London - Outer (England, United Kingdom)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
51 - 61
Star sign:
Any
Height:
4' 10" (147cm) - 5' 7" (171cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks:
Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; Partnered; It's Complicated
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Occasionally; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days
Education:
Secondary; University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Other; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; Home maker; IT / Telecoms; Retail
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
Opportunity
Party behaviour:
The life of the party
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Loving; Loyal; Outspoken; Philosophical; Quiet; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
More physical characteristics
Body art:
Navel ring; One piercing; Several tattoos
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly
Books:
Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Travel
TV programmes:
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Talk shows
Movie frequency:
Several times a week
Movie preferences:
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Auto repair; Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Internet; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; Shopping; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sports:
American Football; Archery; Athletics; Backgammon; Baseball; Basketball; Bodyboarding; Bungee jumping; Camping; Chess; Cricket; Cycling; Dance; Fencing; Football (Soccer); Hiking; Martial arts; Motorsport; Pool; Rugby; Snorkeling
Food
Cooking:
I love it!
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
Other
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Pastimes of choice:
Visiting a museum or gallery
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Family size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Likes & dislikes
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Dream home:
On a beach
Religious attendance:
Doesn't apply
Politics:
Socialist