In Her Own Words
About her
Writer, foodie, trade union and human rights activist. Although what pays the bills is a public sector job. A virulent coffee snob, with a cinema addiction and underlying music obsessions. Theatre and Opera? Name scenes...A language lover and a travelling aficionado. A blackhearted pirate and tattooed viking and ardent reader. No fan of Tories or spiders or control freaks; or indeed controlling Tory voting spiders...however am a massive fan of Liverpool Football Club; but will sway away from the beautiful game for lots of kissing served with or without breakfast in bed (brunch?) will tick cocktails Prosecco, good whisky, craft ale wine or Earl Grey. And I will cook with it for you as long as chat to me while I chop. I am always cruelty free and have no time for judgement. I carry a deep dark wit but steer clear of schadenfreude. Flakiness produces hives but a little indecision is human. Imperfection is always appreciated. As are random or planned public displays of affection. Pick the bits of this that suit platonic if that’s what you want and I’m more open to that currently. By the way, my baggage was lost at the airport.
About her ideal match
You will not think daydreaming silly and you may even love it. You have impeccable table manners in public but at home you secretly lick plates and eat spoons of honey/marmite/nutella while trying to interupt with political comment on radio 4. You read everything and your guilty pleasure is wet Sunday films or turning the zoom camera off to text a friend or arrange a night out or lunch in. You like ice cream. If more than friends then you also love kissing. At our age I expect a little residual angst from a past love or indeed loves who did you wrong but I'm not their competion or your get out of jail free card I do not rebound very well either. I'm better with limitations and boundaries then unrealistic projections. We all make mistakes but if you are prepared to graduate I'm in. Kindness because that is the doorway to possibility and understanding. Being able to say yes to weird and wonderful suggestions of adventure or alone time comfortable with luxury and a bit of grime you will not suffer fools gladly but a maybe a fool for love and care. You will have integrity, but know that I think truth is overrated as no one seems to agree a definition so I prefer honesty clarity upfront stand or sitting point and make me laugh till I forget my name.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Hillingdon, London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasionally | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Public sector | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Other | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
East Sussex; London - Inner; London - Outer (England, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
51 - 61 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 10" (147cm) - 5' 7" (171cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; Partnered; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Occasionally; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
Secondary; University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Other; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; Home maker; IT / Telecoms; Retail | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Opportunity |
Party behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Loving; Loyal; Outspoken; Philosophical; Quiet; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Body art: |
Navel ring; One piercing; Several tattoos |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV programmes: |
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Several times a week |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Internet; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; Shopping; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
American Football; Archery; Athletics; Backgammon; Baseball; Basketball; Bodyboarding; Bungee jumping; Camping; Chess; Cricket; Cycling; Dance; Fencing; Football (Soccer); Hiking; Martial arts; Motorsport; Pool; Rugby; Snorkeling |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Politics: |
Socialist |
