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Brainsandbanter

54 – Kingston upon Thames, Surrey, England

Smart and sassy looking for passion and fun

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In Her Own Words

About her

I have reached the stage in my life when I can think about what I want rather than worry about everyone else. I am fortunate enough to have good friends, a great family and two wonderful grown up children who make me laugh with them every day and ocassionally teach me about life. Now I need to find a special man whom I can share more laugther with and who wants to explore the more adventurous side of life. I need passion both physically and emotionally but no dramas. I love to have fun with interesting and intelligent friends who bring out the best in me and I like to think I do the same for them. I keep fit, run, swim and just about will try anything once. Many say I have a young spirit and don't look my age...maybe they are being kind about the latter but I certainly agree with them about the former. I love people who are creative, different, not afraid to challenge the agreed order of things but have a respect for everyone else's differences and perspectives. I like the finer things in life it's true but I hate snobbery or arrogance in anyone. I love to travel, try new things. I still love going out with friends and hitting the dance floor. If you make me laugh I will find you attractive but chemistry is vital. I am not afraid to express myself honestly and candidly and would like to find someone who likes a woman who knows her mind and what she wants. If any of this rings true with you and you haven't been scared off, please get in touch and let's see where things take us.....oh…if you snore…we probably will only ever be friends…😊

About her ideal match

I would love someone who is young at heart but has a serious attitude to career, friends and family. I definitely need a man and not a boy masquerading as one. Someone who has a creative spirit even if their job does not reflect this. It's important that they look after themselves and care about being fit/healthy....preferably groomed to some level without being vain. Intelligent, ambitious, full of energy and positive attitude. Has good friends and healthy relationships with previous partners please. No nutty exs lurking in the background. Someone who is looking for a partner not just a part time girlfriend to fit around their busy life. Passion and has a lust for life is key. No old fogeys need apply. Not asking for much am I? it does ask for my “ideal”…someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously and can laugh at their faults as well as be proud of their achievements. So if you have energy and an adventurous spirit coupled with sagacity, get in touch.

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About her

Country of origin:
Sri Lanka
Location:
Kingston upon Thames, Surrey, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
54
Star sign:
Libra
Height:
5' 2" (157cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Very Attractive
Hair colour:
Black
Eye colour:
Black
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Ask me later
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
Asian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French; German
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 10 miles of postcode district KT1 (Kingston upon Thames)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
45 - 55
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 11" (180cm) - 6' 3" (191cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Self-employed; Advertising / PR; Media
Income:
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Sophisticated
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
Pleasure
Party behaviour:
A social butterfly
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness
Fashion sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite colour:
Blue
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Long; Curly; Wild
Body art:
Pierced ears
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks
Music preferences:
Broadway / Theatrical; Dance / Disco; Jazz; Latin; Pop / Top 40
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly
Books:
Best-sellers; Fiction; Travel
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Dramas; Movie Channels; News; Sport
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie preferences:
Action; Adult
Interests:
Cooking; Music; Painting; Pottery; The arts
Sports:
Archery; Athletics; Dance; Gymnastics; Martial arts; Pool; Rock climbing; Rugby; Running; Skiing; Sky diving; Squash; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Tennis; Yoga
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Doesn't matter
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time online:
Once or twice a week
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I see them as often as possible
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Power
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Dream home:
On a beach
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating:
Excited
Honesty:
Extremely