In His Own Words
About him
I am a happy, romantic, honest, fun loving person who is looking for a lady friend for - eternity, maybe. I like socialising, travel (California in particular), music (Californian in particular!!!), playing sports (fencing, tennis, golf), cooking (Pakistani, Indian) and reading when possible (SF, biographies).
I have great curiosity about things and I really like visiting unusual places (ancient or modern) and poking my nose into things and places that don't concern me. For example, when I visited the aircraft museum outside Prague, the state television company was making a documentary on the Czech contribution to the space race, so their Soyuz space capsule exhibit had been opened so they could photograph the inside. I asked if I could sit inside and they agreed (it was astonishing), but didn't let me take photographs of me sitting there!! Shame, but I don't know anyone else who has sat inside a real spaceship, do you?? Its interesting what you can achieve if you just ask nicely!! (I tried to see the secret passage to the underworld in the Hypogeum in Malta, but I think the 'attendants' had heard of my quest and stopped me).
I have been single (again) for about 20 years and have 3 grown up children. They all have families now and live in far off parts of the country with their children. I now have 4 grand children, which has happened 'almost overnight', so is quite a shock. Christmas getting more expensive by the day!
So if you are seriously curious about 'things' and like live music ( knowledge of any of: Grateful Dead, Jefferson Airplane, Captain Beefheart, Pink Floyd will be acceptable), you like cockles (oysters also acceptable) and even playing sports, then do get in touch.
About his ideal match
My ideal match is a fellow explorer along the path of life. Someone with whom to share life's joys and sorrows, although 'sorrows' aren't really to be encouraged or entertained. An optimist who leaps (ok that is perhaps a little optimistic) out of bed every morning, who can't wait to see what is going to happen next in life. It could also be helpful if you enjoyed doing some (at least) of the things I enjoy, not that I would force anyone into any of it!! You should be comfortable attending formal dinners as well as spending exotic days in Amsterdam or the Caribbean, where I was fortunate to live and where I would love to live again one day.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Southend-on-Sea, Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
71 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
6' 0" (183cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Dutch | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
33 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 3" (159cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Occasionally; Regularly | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Moody; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Curly |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Heavy Metal; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fantasy; Sci-Fi; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Investing; Music; Photography; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Chess; Cycling; Darts; Fencing; Golf; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
French; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Dream home: |
Other |
Religious attendance: |
Once a month |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
