In His Own Words
About him
I'm comfortable in my own skin, and finally past the age of pretending to be anyone I'm not. I'm warm, often funny, fairly capable around the house, and I make a roast that has been described as "actually quite good" (high praise from my family). I'd rather spend an evening laughing over dinner than impressing strangers in a loud bar. Looking for someone who feels broadly the same way.
About his ideal match
Someone kind, someone who laughs easily, and someone who's done enough living to have proper stories of their own. I'm not after a project, a mirror image, or a checklist, just someone I genuinely like spending time with and who feels the same about me. Bonus points for a good sense of humour, a soft spot for dogs, and a willingness to disagree about something occasionally. Looks matter less than warmth, and warmth matters less than kindness.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Northampton (Brixworth), Northamptonshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
IT / Telecoms | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district NN6 (Northampton) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
45 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Dark Brown; Red; Black; Changes Often | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Food / Catering; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Science / Engineering / Research; Advertising / PR; Consultancy / Design; Home maker; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Sarcastic; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Average |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; Scottish; World |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Horror; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch news |





