In Her Own Words
About her
Creative, curious, and prefers one-to-one than in a crowd. I'm happiest having a good chat, making things, getting my hands covered in ink, learning something new, eating great food, being in nature or getting lost in music or films.
I live with an invisible health condition, so I’m thoughtful about how I spend my energy. Most days I’m out walking, at the gym, seeing films or art. Some days are slower. I adapt, regroup, carry on.
I value depth over noise, independent thinking, and conversation that wanders somewhere interesting.
About her ideal match
Someone self-aware, emotionally literate, and empathetic. You can talk about real things, including feelings, but you also have a sense of humour about the human condition.
I’m independent and comfortable in my own company, so space and mutual respect matter. I admire people who’ve faced adversity, worked on themselves, and kept their warmth intact.
Curious mind. Open heart. Independent. A bit outside the box.
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Islington, London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 5 miles of postcode district N19 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
54 - 66 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Realistic; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Short; Straight; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Latin; Punk; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Cooking / Baking; Dramas; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Rowing; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free; Other |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I don't have any family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
