In Her Own Words
About her
People should get to know me because I combine strength, wisdom, and warmth in a way that hopefully makes life richer for those around me. I’m looking for friends and companions first. I’m still divorcing, so it’s complicated and after 23 years with the ex, I’m not in a hurry to find the next guy or used to online dating yet. I’m a rookie DIY enthusiast and would love to meet someone who’s good at most stuff. I’m a keen Gardener (get things wrong but I try) and I’m not a bad cook but need someone to cook for to be inspired to do it. Equally love eating out or a cheeky takeaway or ping meal. I like nights out, long walks, (countryside or beach), and I love a good pub and social gatherings. Don’t want much out of a new friend, just kindness, sense of humour, great honesty and patience. I will hold my own and don’t suffer fools, but like someone with an opinion of their own and who will respect my opinion. Politically I hope we agree. I’ll share that in person at a later date though. It’s not bad but you should never discuss religion, politics or money.
About her ideal match
They should be a good person, honest and hard working. Values friendship and peace. Loves walking, DIY, cooking and socialising. Likes a laugh. He must respect opinion but not be afraid to share opinions of his own. I like a guy to be thoughtful and absolutely be respectful of others. I don’t like fighting, drugs or alcohol abuse. I love to walk, and although I sadly no longer have one, I have owned dogs in my time, so if he’s got a dog, I’m happy. I love nature, the changing of seasons and my new friend should love that too. I’m open to new adventures, so I’m hoping my new friend will help me explore and try new things. I would love him to be tall also, I like a guy to be a guy. I’m not girly, I can hold my own but he should be able to meet me in the middle on a reasonable level both intellectually and financially. I’m not impressed by bullies or show offs and wealth sometimes brings that out in people. Please don’t be that guy. I’m astute and I work people out quickly, so I’m not interested if you’re gonna lie to me. Most of all I value fairness and kindness. There’s no I in team. Friends first and no mad expectations of me to begin with and we’ll see where it goes.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Reigate, Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
52 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Ask me later | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
Financial services | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district RH1 (Redhill) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
53 - 62 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 5" (196cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Secondary; University / College student; Further education; University; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Loving; Loyal; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Soap operas; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Music; Painting; Politics; Shopping |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Boxing; Cycling; Darts; Football (Soccer); Horse Riding; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Nervous; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |



