Octoberoptimist

73 – Chelmsford (Romford), Essex, England

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Octoberoptimist

73 – Chelmsford (Romford), Essex, England

An eternal optimistic seeks her soul mate.

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Online: 09 December 2025

Modified: 09 December 2025

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In Her Own Words

About her

A lover of life and all things outdoors, love many music genres, the theatre, conversing with interesting, (not negative ones) people, and eating healthy food.

About her ideal match

An optimistic man who enjoy the outdoors and travelling. A man who is kind, caring, friendly, understanding and supportive like myself. A deal breaker would be a man with little intelligence or education.

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About her

Country of origin:
Barbados
Location:
Chelmsford (Romford), Essex, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
73
Star sign:
Sagittarius
Height:
5' 7" (170cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Black
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Retired
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Black/Caribbean descent
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Christian / Orthodox

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district RM2 (Romford)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
65 - 75
Star sign:
Any
Height:
6' 1" (185cm) - 6' 5" (196cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Not important at all
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Black/Caribbean descent
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French
Religion:
Christian / Orthodox
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Confident; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite clothing:
Something my (grand)mother made me.
Favourite colour:
Green
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; Curly; Disappearing
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Latin; R&B / Soul; Reggae
Reading:
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally
Books:
Fantasy; Fiction; Romance
TV habits:
I watch television every day
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; News; Soap operas
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Romance
Interests:
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Painting; Shopping; The arts
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
American Football; Athletics; Basketball; Fencing; Gymnastics; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Running; Squash; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Yoga
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; German; Indian; Italian; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
Gluten-free; Sugar-free
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Exercising
Time online:
I check in once a day
Family size:
I've got sisters
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
Not at all
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Erotica; Flirting; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Dream home:
House in the suburbs
Politics:
Conservative
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating:
Hopeful; Optimistic
Honesty:
Extremely