In Her Own Words
About her
I’m an intellectually curious, left-leaning, over-thinker with a dry sense of humour. I’m interested in people and their stories and love to learn new things every day. I have a strong sense of social justice but am also alive to my own inconsistencies. Love reading, history, pottering in the garden, and a good podcast. I travel a fair bit with work (mainly Europe) and family & friends often join me which is fun. I have two older kids so will soon be an empty-nester. Looking for adventures, friendship, new experiences, and to see where things lead.
About her ideal match
I guess I’m looking for kindness, and company, and laughter. I think it’s important to share the same values, and have enough in common to be compatible, but enough difference to make life interesting. If you voted Brexit/Tory/Reform we probably won’t get on.
I think if you find your soulmate, you’re really lucky, but making new friends that enrich your life a little bit is a great outcome too.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Loughborough, Leicestershire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Science / Engineering / Research | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district LE11 (Loughborough) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 61 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality traits: |
Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Gardening; Painting; Reading; Sewing; Singing |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Dance; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Sugar-free |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Honesty: |
Extremely |




