In His Own Words
About him
I would like to think that my friends would describe my personality as caring, thoughtful, humourous, intelligent and affectionate.
I do have a rewarding career and friends and family are important to me. I enjoy long walks, cooking, dancing, spending time with friends and family, and lots more.
Most days you'd find me walking up the hills and valleys of the Lake District or Peak District. However, I do treat myself to a nice concert or theatre play. Tchaikovsky, Hans Zimmerman, Ludovico Einaudi You name it. If the occasion calls for dressing up, I'm there .
I am not your typical man, I go for what I want, I'm unconventional and I do tend to enjoy all the great things life has to offer. I do approach life with a touch of innocence. I do not let the ills of society jade my experience with others or cloud my judgement. I always come from a purview of how does this work? instead of writing things or people off based on superficial things.
I tend to go above and beyond for those that matter to me. My values are honesty, kindness, empathy and respect. I am not hung up about age either. I think there are lots of interesting people in the world and they come in varying shapes, heights, sizes and ages so I will not limit myself of the possibility of finding someone that is right for me just because of their age. What matters is a person's, heart and their personality.
If you're looking for a man who's cultured, intelligent, well travelled and adventurous then you've met your match.
About his ideal match
I would love to meet A woman who is open minded, honest, sassy, able to express their thoughts (no point bottling up feelings), respectful, adventurous and able to stand their ground. I want an equal in every sense of the word. Someone I can live life with (I don't mean together in a house). I also want someone who has a positive mindset and mature in their thinking. Adventure is a must. There's beauty in this world so why not explore it.
Deal Breakers:
Inability to communicate
Lack of emotional depth
Impatience - if you can't be patient to get to know someone, then you're wasting people's time.
Lack of respect
What His Friends Say
Diane said...
I count myself incredibly lucky and very fortunate to have met Jerry and welcomed him into my life and he is now very much part of my family. I knew immediately that we would become lifelong friends, he exudes such joy and happiness wherever he goes, and you cannot help but smile in his presence.
I would describe Jerry as very Dapper; he takes such pride in how he presents himself and always looks fantastic and his cologne is a real deal breaker as he always smells so good! 😊
It is rare to find such a genuine, warm, understanding, resilient & charismatic individual who prides himself on being honest and loyal to all he encounters. He has a such a beautiful caring nature.
Jerry has a wicked sense of humor and can light up a room from the minute he walks in and his beautiful soul shines through immediately. He appreciates the little things in life and finds joy in everyday moments, his generosity is not just about giving material things, it's about sharing his love, time and energy with others.
A very rare breed of gentlemen indeed.
Jim said...
My friend Jerry is nothing short of a gem--a true gentleman in every sense of the word. He is consistent, caring, loving, inspiring, charismatic, and effortlessly fun to be around. His light shines brightly wherever he goes, touching lives with warmth and sincerity.
But more than that, Jerry is deeply human. He possesses a powerful sense of justice and is always willing to stand up for those without a voice. I've known Jerry for a long time, and I can say with certainty that he is one of the most genuine and honest people you'll ever meet. His word is his bond, and when he makes a promise, he honours it.
He's the kind of friend who stands by you through both the storms and the sunshine. His unwavering commitment to the people in his life is as inspiring as it is rare.
Jerry has enriched my life in countless ways, and I'm endlessly grateful for his presence.
I may be biased--but honestly, anyone would be lucky to know this remarkable man. Missing out on someone like Jerry would be nothing short of a mistake.
About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Canterbury, Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
49 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African descent | |
Home language: |
Ask me later | |
Other languages: |
English; Other | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 200 miles of postcode district CT1 (Canterbury) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
57 - 77 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 9" (144cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
Yes; No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Food / Catering; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Transportation; Agriculture; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; Home maker; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism; Retail; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African descent; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
English; Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; Filipino / Tagalog; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Hebrew; Italian; Norwegian; Portuguese; Spanish; Swedish; Turkish; Welsh | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite clothing: |
A leather biker's jacket |
Favourite colour: |
White |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock; Scottish; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Business; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Pottery; Reading; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Badminton; Bowling; Bowls; Chess; Cricket; Dance; Football (Soccer); Golf; Hiking; Polo; Table Tennis; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Lactose-free |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Napping |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |