In Her Own Words
About her
Meanwhile, I’m a funny, kind, interesting and interested, lively, quirky, creative woman. Good cook, good listener. Think outside the box. I love being out in nature- have a passion for beach-combing. I like travel, walking, dancing, tennis. Making art, reading, seeing films and shows, mooching around galleries. Always inquisitive. I have a spaniel who is my empty nest filler and who I adore.
About her ideal match
Someone who is comfortable in their own skin; who can relax easily but is curious about the the world around them. Kind and tender and generous with their time and them self. Someone who is aware and concerned about injustices but who can also laugh a lot and love a lot. Laidback but bothered. A good sense of humor is vital!
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
St Albans, Hertfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
Ask me later | |
Other languages: |
French; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district WD4 (Kings Langley) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
50 - 69 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 5" (164cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My swimming trunks / bikini |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Folk; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; Sculpting; Singing; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Dance; Skiing; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |







