In Her Own Words
About her
Equal parts deep thinker and fun-seeker, I’m the kind of person who’ll beat you at backgammon, then make up for it with a round of drinks (or an elaborate celebratory dance—your choice). I thrive on clever conversations, spontaneous adventures, and the kind of laughter that makes tears roll down your face.
Fiercely independent but always up for great company, I’m the friend who plans last-minute road trips, the social butterfly who actually listens, and the person who finds weirdly specific joy in discovering a hidden gem of a café.
If you’ve got a sharp mind, a kind heart, and a knack for introducing me to something brilliantly unexpected, we’ll probably get along just fine. Bonus points if you appreciate witty banter, deep talks, and the occasional people-watching session with absurd backstories.
Let’s make some stories worth telling. Swipe right—you know you want to. 😉
About her ideal match
"Seeking a Fellow Explorer of Both Maps and Minds"
If you’re open-minded, quick-witted, and see life as an adventure rather than a to-do list, we’re already off to a great start. I’m drawn to people who think deeply but don’t take themselves too seriously, who can keep up with a spirited debate but also appreciate a good, ridiculous tangent.
You respect your body—not in a ‘must have a six-pack’ way, but in a ‘treats himself like a limited-edition collectible’ kind of way. Whether that means hiking up mountains, practicing mindfulness, or just remembering to drink enough water, I’m into it.
Bonus points if you’re the type who’s always up for a spontaneous getaway, can match my love for witty banter, and brings a little extra optimism to the table. If you can make me laugh and make me think in the same conversation, we just might be onto something.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Cambridge, Cambridgeshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Ask me later | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district CB4 (Cambridge) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
51 - 64 | ||
Star sign: |
Aries; Gemini; Leo; Virgo; Libra; Sagittarius | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 5' 11" (181cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English; Danish; Dutch; Finnish; French; German; Italian; Norwegian; Swedish | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Caustic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Melancholy; Outspoken; Philosophical; Quiet; Shy; Thoughtful; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Honesty; Humour; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short; Wild; Out of control; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any; Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Reality shows; Soap operas; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Music; Reading; Shopping |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Badminton; Dance; Hiking; Running; Table Tennis; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Dream home: |
In the mountains |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |