In His Own Words
About him
Do not look ahead for me,
I will not lead.
Do not look behind for me,
I will not follow.
Do look to your side,
I will be there always.
Oh to find a like-minded man!
So here's my situation, up a creek without a paddle, but not sh*t creek.
At work I'm gregarious and amusing, (I hope) liked by pretty much everyone. At home, I'm alone after the death of my partner two years ago. We were self- contained with a few friends and now I long to meet someone I can get closer to personally, and intimately too, in whatever form that takes.
I'm passable in a dim light, fit, quite bright, independent, no spring chicken, and a nice guy, not desperate but keen to meet the right man.
I find songs often hit the mark, there's one for every case. Some for me at present would be
🎵Rescue me/The Day Before You Came/Take On Me/Ordinary World/I Will Leave a Light On/Let's Misbehave/Happy Ever After/There's A Place For Us🎶 So many more could apply!
About his ideal match
A warm and caring man, not too like-minded, who'd bring a little spice and challenge to our interactions. A guy who knows things change and can improve with a partner. I know what counts in life, through experience. Hope springs eternal.
Life is for living and handling twists and turns. I can be leant on when things get tough - I would want you to be the same. Mostly I long to share the many good times that are yet to come. Someone I'd enjoy having around me, who makes me smile and,of course, vice versa!🙂
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Cirencester (Tetbury), Gloucestershire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
64 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
30 - 80 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 5" (164cm) - 6' 7" (201cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Secondary; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Food / Catering; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Public sector; Media; Retail; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
English; French | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Optimistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Body hair: |
Average |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; Non-fiction; Romance |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; News; Sci-Fi; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Acting; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Painting; Politics; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |











