In Her Own Words
About her
I live in a cottage in the countryside with three rescued tom cats—so yes, I may be on my way to becoming that crazy cat lady! Jokes aside, I love animals. I used to have a dog but since I don't want to be quite so tied down, I got cats instead. They’re still shy, having never lived with a human before, but I’m winning them over by hand-feeding them loads of chicken.
I studied opera but don’t sing professionally anymore. Instead I teach therapeutic voice work, which I love. It’s incredible how much a person’s vocal tone reveals—it speaks volumes. Did you know that medical technology can now detect heart disease just by analysing vocal tone? Anyways, I’d love a partner who generally is interested in what I do.
I appreciate good food, but I don’t particularly enjoy cooking. I feel cooking is a more social activity ideally accompanied by a good chat and a glass of wine. That said, I don’t drink every day.
I'm quite an artistic person who likes being creative. My garden was completely overgrown when I moved here, so I’m slowly turning it into what will become a dreamy English cottage-style haven. Could I use some extra muscle for the heavy lifting? Absolutely—hint, hint!
I come from a cosmopolitan background—I’d say quite sophisticated in some ways (but I’m really not a snob!). I grew up in Switzerland, and have lived in Germany, Austria, and South Tirol. I moved to the UK ten years ago after the loss of my beloved sister, who I still dearly miss. Although most people don’t notice, I haven’t lived here all my life, so I don’t get certain cultural references.
I have an independent streak, but I’m also affectionate. I believe in a balance between doing things together and having time apart—it’s important to have our own space, but also to share quality time! I really value deep, meaningful conversations and quiet moments together, both of which help build a strong, connected relationship
If any of this resonates with you, say hello—I’d love to hear your story. 😊
About her ideal match
I’m looking for someone who’s intellectually curious and enjoys thinking critically about the world. You bring fresh perspectives and aren’t afraid to question the status quo. Deep and meaningful conversations are the foundation of a strong, genuine connection, and I’d love a partner who values and actively participates in them.
You speak at least one foreign language fluently and have lived in different countries, which has shaped how you see the world. If you share a similarly international background, we’ll probably get along really well—these experiences make us who we are and how we relate to others.
You’re ready for a serious, long-term relationship, and kindness, generosity, honesty, and authenticity are important to you.
I appreciate a gentleman who knows how to make an evening feel special. If this resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you!"
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About her
Country of origin: |
Switzerland | |
Location: |
Bath, Somerset, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye colour: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Europe; Canada; United States | ||
Location: |
Europe; United States | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 59 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Indian; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Personality traits: |
Confident; Outgoing; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Instrumental; New Age; Opera; World |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
Interests: |
Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; The arts |
Sports: |
Camping; Dance; Ice Skating; Swimming; Walking; Yoga |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |