In His Own Words
About him
I'm an emotionally articulate and available male empty nester who is looking for romance and companionship and emotional intimacy with a fun food and dog lover. My friends describe me as easy to get on with, giving, thoughtful and humble - I see myself as less perfect lol. I love music and am known for bringing it to the party, playing instruments or djing. I have two grown up children who don't live with me as they study and they are a constant source of pride and grounding for me. I love cooking, cozy sofa cuddle sessions and being in nature. My outlook on life is that we are all here to realise our potential, and become the best versions of ourselves we can be, but to have fun in the process - we're not here for very long. Let's make it count.
About his ideal match
My ideal match is self aware and emotionally available. Empathy, compassion and understanding are the qualities that I seek in a partner, as well as humour and fun. Laughter is the best tonic and it's important to be able to laugh at ourselves. I spiritual awareness very attractive, as I do an interest in other cultures and belief systems. Emotional and physical intimacy, I believe, are a basic human need and the bedrock of a successful relationship, along with compromise, support and challenge. Walking/hiking, galleries, gigs, festivals, travel, cooking, movies and camping are all activities that I'd like to share with a partner - I'm not a blokey bloke into football/ golf/ pubs etc. Non monogamy is a deal breaker for me, as is unrequited affection.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Enfield (London), London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegan | |
Smoking: |
Occasionally | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district N13 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age range: |
48 - 58 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Hindu; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Philosophical; Sarcastic; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Hair style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Latin; New Age; Pop / Top 40; Punk; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Dance; Extreme sports; Ice Skating; Running; Sailing; Skateboarding; Snowboarding; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Surfing |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Extremely |