In His Own Words
About him
I recently divorced after 30 years of marriage, which produced two grown-up children I adore. So, this is all new to me. The last time I dated, you had to post an advert in the local newspaper and leave a message on the telephone. At the moment, I’m looking for companionship with an open mind as to where that may or may not lead. I love cuddles, platonic or otherwise, cinema, comedy, live music, meals out and sports. I’ve so much to learn about this new world and would like to find someone to teach a middle-aged wallflower to enjoy life and have fun again.
About his ideal match
I’d love to meet someone warm, affectionate and compassionate, with a genuine curiosity for life and the world around them. It would be wonderful if they had a great sense of humour and an easy-going nature, someone who values meaningful conversations as much as shared silences. I appreciate people with diverse interests, whether it’s exploring nature, meals out, diving into a good book or enjoying cinema, live music or comedy. Ideally, they should be based in the UK, preferably near Oxfordshire, Northamptonshire or Warwickshire, so we can enjoy spontaneous meetups and explore together. Most importantly, I’m looking for someone who brings kindness and sincerity to a relationship, someone who enjoys sharing stories and creating new ones together. I’m not sure that I’m not ready for new love at the moment but have an open mind to where companionship can take us. I’ve so much to learn about this new world and I would like to find someone that can gently teach a middle-aged wallflower to enjoy life and have fun again.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Banbury, Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Occasionally | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Consultancy / Design | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Banbury (England, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
45 - 55 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
Yes; No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Occasionally; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Orange |
Hair style: |
Short; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
None |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have a visual impairment; I have a chronic illness; I have a hearing impairment |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Crime; History; Mystery; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Investing; Music; Politics; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
A regular competitor |
Sports: |
Bowls; Cricket; Football (Soccer); Rugby |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
