In Her Own Words
About her
Hi, I’m Kim. At 55, I know what I want in life—and in a partner. I’m a painter and potter with a passion for creating art and nurturing creativity. By day, I work with challenging kids, which keeps me grounded, inspired, and fiercely empathetic.
I’m looking for someone mature, self-reliant, and ready to build a meaningful relationship based on shared values like human rights, ethics, and fairness. My politics lean socialist, and I’m not shy about standing up for what I believe in.
I value my independence and creativity, so my art room and pottery studio are non-negotiable sanctuaries. That said, I have plenty of room in my heart for the right person who respects women, values equality, and is excited about exploring life together.
I’m petite, fun, and have a love for deep conversations and big ideas. If you’re someone who’s ready to connect and share this next chapter, let’s talk!
About her ideal match
My ideal match is a self-assured man who knows his mind but remains open to other perspectives. He’s confident yet flexible, willing to embrace new ideas and explore possibilities beyond conventional thinking. Passionate about his own pursuits, he’s someone who brings drive and purpose to his life, whether that’s through his work, hobbies, or personal growth.
Shared values are essential—he believes in fairness, equality, and the importance of a just society. I admire a man with practical skills, someone who isn’t afraid to roll up his sleeves and get things done, whether it’s fixing something around the house or creating something new.
He’s a caring and thoughtful individual, ready to put energy into building a meaningful connection. At this life stage, he understands the challenges of starting over but is motivated to try because he, too, is tired of being alone. He’s looking for a partner who shares his values, respects his independence, and is excited to create something real and lasting together.
If this sounds like you, I would love to meet someone who’s ready to share the journey.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Leeds, Yorkshire - West, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Auburn | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Occasionally | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Public sector | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district LS6 (Leeds) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 68 | ||
Star sign: |
Gemini | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outspoken; Philosophical; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Body art: |
I don't have any; Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Electronic Dance Music; Jazz; Latin; Punk; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Travel |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Reality shows; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama |
Interests: |
Acting; Cooking; Gardening; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; The arts; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cricket |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
Once or twice a week |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Politics: |
Labour |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |