In Her Own Words
About her
I’m a semi-retired professional still actively involved with my practice and with no plans to stop any time soon - it keeps me active and engaged. But I’ve always filled the unforgiving minute with many diverse interests, and I’m now backfilling the time with those, including lots of mostly related volunteering. It would be nice to find a like minded companion to share our remaining years.
I think my friends would say I’m intelligent, hard working, generous with my time and talents and good company as long as it’s not too noisy. I’m a self-starter and usually have at least one initiative on the go. I like to dress informally and I’m happiest in smaller communities where I can make myself useful. My happy places are generally near water or nature and many of my interests reflect that. I have a share in a narrowboat syndicate, I race a small boat, I’m planning some European and UK trips in my camper van and I really do want to keep my allotment and garden in some sort of order! Nature-friendly gardens make for a great excuse.
I value honesty, loyalty, an open mind and intelligent engagement with the world. We live in interesting times and I hope to spend many more years exploring places and ideas, hopefully with my soulmate.
About her ideal match
I think it’s best not to have preconceived ideas about who you’ll gel with. An open and enquiring mind, an intelligent outlook, a decent moral compass and a reliable and conscientious disposition are far more important than outward appearance, status or wealth.
It takes time to get to know someone and chemistry isn’t always instant. If it looked like we might get on, I’d want to meet up fairly quickly. I’m not likely to move areas, as I’m so deeply engaged my local community, but I’m open to a relationship involving some mutual travel and quality time spent together. I will always reply to messages here and hope you will too.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Poole (Dorset), Dorset, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
68 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Legal | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district BH14 (Poole) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
60 - 75 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Most days | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Moderation; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Instrumental |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Politics; Reading; Singing; Voluntary work; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
A regular competitor |
Sports: |
Camping; Cycling; Sailing; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |