In His Own Words
About him
I am ready for the final adventure of the heart ! Falling in love is great but life's lesson is making love last...(however Pluto is currently in opposition to my natal Venus so my magical part would have its world view overturned if I find love before March '25 ;-) ).
This box-ticking is deeply unromantic *sigh*. Therapist, dream job, houseboat on the Thames in a nice community. Two daughters largely fledged. Really enjoy my own company and occasionally solitude but that is just starting to edge into loneliness as autumn walks and winter roasts really are better shared...
Lots of music and books in my life, brainlessly affectionate mackerel tabby and more time spent making pretty useless things than is reasonable at my age.
I realise now that I'm supposed to say all the incredibly fun and entertaining stuff that I do....but honestly all these tales of folk constantly discovering unknown eateries , endlessly going to the gym, and having long country walks with packs of dogs ending at fire lit pubs....just sounds a bit idealised. This Summer, for example, I caught a train to the south of France (two blissful hours lunching in Le Train Bleu en route) to stay on a friend's farm for week, foraging, asbestos removal, archery, a bit of anthropology, came back and spent a fortnight oiling my home - not as dull as it sounds when you have music and sunshine, friends visiting and yes, did go to a couple of very good exhibitions but spent quite a lot of time in a hammock catching up on reading, then flew to Ireland for an Alchemical Constellations retreat. From September I'm working again with clients and on some PAT medicine trials and that takes up most of my week although I try to keep a day free for a swim and some reflection. Weekends ? ...well that's where you, my longed for lover, come in.... If we favorite each other then I will get in touch.. oh, and apologies if this sounds superficial but a picture IS important - I have to be able to imagine fancying you after all !
About his ideal match
Ten years ago I would have said a short dark and wickedly sparkly woman who runs with the wolves, and that would still turn my head, but for grown up relationships I find I am much happier with a kind, sexy soulful woman who knows herself and knows how to say no, and when to say Yes !
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Richmond upon Thames (On the river), Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district TW7 (Isleworth) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
44 - 59 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 7" (171cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Muslim; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A cruiser |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Happy; Intelligent; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Stable; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Faithfulness; Honesty; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Hair style: |
Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Going out dancing; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; New Age; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Fiction; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Cult Classics; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Meditation; Music; Reading; Singing; The arts; Woodwork; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Chess; Snooker |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Politics: |
Green |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |