In Her Own Words
About her
I really struggle to capture all that is me in a few lines,but here goes.
I'm looking to meet people who I can spend time talking and laughing with. There's nothing better than face ache caused by laughter.
I'm ready for finding a genuine connection with someone who is recognises that life is surprisingly short and who wants to fully embrace it.
My friends would say that I'm loyal,generous and humorous with a serious focus on humanity. I recognise I'm not average in anyway and I like that for me.
Quite left in my views and no longer wish to argue the toss with those anywhere near the right.
I'm a keen ally for the marginalised.
Still love a rave and gigs-live music has been a long time passion. I also like art exhibitions/installations,film,music,rea ding,gardens,theatre,tasty food,live comedy,photography and being outside in the daylight with friends. I love to be near the sea too.
Passionate about my interests s,especially Black History and working class history. I love to learn about others and what makes them tick.
I'm a retired mental health nurse,with nearly four decades of experience in the NHS. I feel it's my time now as this is a new chapter of life for me as I have made a difference to others lives during my career. I'm fine about being single,but it would be great to meet my match or someone who compliments my personality. I'm ever hopeful,but realistic about humans and our flaws.
I'm not looking for a pen pal and will be keen to speak or meet if we have a good vibe.
About her ideal match
I'm hoping to meet kind,confidant,left leaning,generous,open minded people;who enjoy socialising,the arts,music,film and who are emotionally intelligent,honest,courageous and appreciate integrity.
Kindness,motivation to see new places,warmth,good listening skills,quirky humour and openness are attractive qualities to me. As well as an interest in others welfare.
I tend to be attracted to personality traits rather than what's considered good looks.
Has much as I consider myself as open minded;no Tories or flat earthers.
If you're all about your needs,then I'm not the one as I no longer have the tolerance/time for poor manners,misogynoir and situations that lack equality.
I'm independent, but I'm also looking to share time and new experiences with someone who has similar values and outlook on at this stage of life. I think learning is life long and sharing time with emotionally intelligent adults is really appealing to me.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Leeds (Huddersfield), Yorkshire - West, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Occasionally | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/Caribbean descent | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district HD5 (Huddersfield) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 68 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 6" (167cm) - 6' 5" (196cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; White; Bald; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Confident; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Short; Curly; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; One piercing; A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Athletics; Birdwatching; Boxing; Camping; Dance; Gymnastics; Hiking; Running; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Socialist |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
