In His Own Words
About him
A happy go lucky, very funny sense of humour and able to hold his own on most subjects. Loves restaurants, cinema and live music whether its at Wembley Stadium or my local pub. Holds black belts in both Judo and Brazilian Ju-Jitsu. I also do boxing training which I love along with marathon running. Even though I have these 'self defences' I've never had to use them and really wouldn't dream of using them in a fight. I'm quite good at talking people 'down' and I have an eye for stopping trouble before it starts. The marathon training comes in handy for getting as far away from trouble as possible. I'd rather be a 'live' coward than a 'dead' hero. Saying that if I do see anyone in distress I'm the type of man who will assist if I can.
About his ideal match
I've been single now over 6 years. Prior to that I have had only 2 relationships that spanned 25years. Both ladies we're my equal. The relationships came to a natural end there was no hate, name calling, other people involved. Every so often I'll get an email or text from them asking how I'm getting on etc. So there is no bad blood. I really hope my next partner has a mind of her own and has her own life, career or whatever.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Southend-on-Sea (Southend City on Sea), Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
IT / Telecoms | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
United States | ||
Location: |
Europe; Canada; United States | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
35 - 50 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Athletic; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Further education | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Loyal; Optimistic; Sarcastic; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite colour: |
Black |
Hair style: |
Long; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; Going out dancing; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Pop / Top 40; Punk; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Horror; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Movie Channels; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Cult Classics; Documentary; Horror; Independent |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Computer programming; Internet; Meditation; Music |
Sport involvement: |
A regular competitor |
Sports: |
Athletics; Martial arts; Pool; Running; Shooting; Triathlon; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Gastro Pub; Italian; Japanese; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Work aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
