In Her Own Words
About her
I’m that person who says let’s give this a go. And what will we create together. I enjoy learning new skills new environment and people
About her ideal match
A person who loves life and has a calm peaceful way of being in it Is comfortable to communicate and takes responsibility for self
Happy to be in their own vulnerabilities Is authentic. Has values and respects life
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Kelso, Borders, Scotland | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 1" (155cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Auburn | |
Eye colour: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasionally | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
Ask me later | |
Other languages: |
Spanish | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district TD5 (Kelso) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
51 - 61 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; Scottish; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Self-help; Travel |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Cult Classics; Independent; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Woodwork; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Canoeing; Chess; Cycling; Dance; Hiking; Martial arts; Swimming; Walking; White water rafting; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I don't have any family |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Politics: |
Green |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |