In Her Own Words
About her
Having left a decades long relationship at the beginning of 2024 I am now looking for the love of my life.
My new mindset is not to waste time overthinking but embrace the opportunities that come along in life.
My priorities are family, friendships and fun and I would like to meet someone who has the capacity in their life for a loving and hopefully long-term relationship.
I am older, wiser, more stubborn, more confident, less uptight and definitely happier than my younger self. I am excited to be dating again after a break of 30+ years! Can’t be doing with sitting at home feeling sorry for myself and anyway meeting new people is fun.
I like to think I could make somebody out there very happy.
Come say hello and let’s see if we click...
About her ideal match
Character and physical traits that I find appealing, in no particular order...
Height (I am 5'8 so a taller guy makes me feel more feminine)
Personal style (doesn't have to be a particular one, just please make an effort)
Intelligence, curiosity and interesting conversation / sense of humour
Creativity, artistic side, appreciation of music and dancing without embarrassment
Ability to cook (very sexy)
A loving parent or pet owner
Someone who can step up in a crisis and helps a friend in need
Knows his way around the female anatomy
Enjoys a good night out at the pub/ cinema/ music gig/ comedy night/ west end show/ sporting event or whatever
Honest, open, humble and can put other people first sometimes
Active, but not obsessive about it
This list is not exhaustive and it's pretty unlikely that one person will embody every single thing but two or three would be a great starting point.....
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Bath, Somerset, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Red | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district BA1 (Bath) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
45 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Bald; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Brown; Green; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Optimistic; Philosophical; Realistic; Shy; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Long |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; One piercing |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Travel |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Internet; Music; Photography; Reading; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |