In His Own Words
About him
Am a retired doctor and although outwardly confident, inwardly shy! Good talker, good listener. Honesty in a relationship is vital. Music nourishes my soul. Drink most days, but teach several classes on wine appreciation, so have to keep practicing. Enjoy sharing cooking with another. I always like to add a touch of love to the other spices, herbs, etc. Bit passionate about rugby, had a season ticket for Northampton Saints for 40 years. Have family in Germany and New Zealand so do like to travel In fact have just returned from 4 weeks in New Zealand. Find humour in most situations and enjoy making others laugh. For some people it might be their day’s highlight, so many others have a hard life. Ankle problems mean that walking miles is not pleasant, so rambling not on my to do list. Much prefer face to face conversations to writing messages or telephone.
About his ideal match
Probably a bit cautious, it takes time to build a relationship. Someone who prefers a dinner for two, rather than a cocktail party. Someone who enjoys a sunset, I’m not a sunrise person.
Thoughtful, kind, caring, the usual perfect qualities. Someone who appreciates quietness as much as noise. Someone who’s not bothered by silence. Sharing music, food, wine would be fun. Learning from someone new is exciting, so new opportunities. I can’t think of a deal breaker because either the chemistry works or it doesn’t!
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Northampton, Northamptonshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
78 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Large | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
White | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Most days | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Medical / Dental / Veterinary | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Spanish | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district NN2 (Northampton) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
66 - 78 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Further education | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Minimal (Clothes are strictly optional) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have a hearing impairment |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Non-fiction; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cooking / Baking; Movie Channels; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Drama |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Internet; Music |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Cricket; Rugby |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing absolutely nothing |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Enjoying the comforts of home |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Very |