In His Own Words
About him
Overweight, skint, probably having a mid life crisis, needing direction, application and love. Been a single father for over many years and now they have flown the nest and feel I would love now, to share a life, love and some jazz with someone kind, nice and with a fabulous smile. (I think kindness is under rated!). Despite this year having reached the age of fifty eight and having two fabulous children, run businesses and explored many avenues, I feel, in honesty, I am yet to fulfill my potential and hope to meet someone to either inspire, affirm or engage in an adventure of what this is, or could be.
About his ideal match
Kind and honest with a fab smile and a love of art, design culture and music. Love to share a bottle of wine and listen to some live jazz.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Northampton, Northamptonshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Consultancy / Design | |
Income: |
Struggling | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
40 - 58 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 6" (168cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Faithful; Generous; Loving; Loyal; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Latin; Opera; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Religious; Romance; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Badminton; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing |
Turn-offs: |
Intelligence; Power; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Politics: |
Labour |
Retirement plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |