In Her Own Words
About her
Hello, thank you for viewing me. I am a naturally out-going lady, a true sapiosexual who is generous, loving and giving. I am seeking my soulmate (aren't we all?) and I live in hope.
I am a woman with much life experience. I have travelled the world and now I am back home in Henley-on-Thames looking for a charming gentleman that I can spend days laughing, crying and all the things that make us human.
My ideal partner would be tall (as I am 5'9 without heels), charming, well dressed, adorable/sweet, loving and always smiling.
I love to chat over lunch and watch the world pass by.
I'm open minded, and give my heart and soul to everyone I meet. Every soul is valuable. I treat others the way I would like to be treated. No vulgar comments please and be a gentleman to gain my attention and affection. Thank you. (one step at a time, as they say). X
About her ideal match
Over 6' - charming, well dressed, smiling, loving and generous.
You are a traditionalist, you know how to treat a lady well, and gain her into your affection. I am super loving and giving, I will spoil you rotten and I am very sexual and passionate, so I would like the same please. Thank you.
No smarmy chat ups or vulgarity please. thank you. Serious soulmate searchers only - I am not seeking a fling. I am after my soulmate, so if you are not free and just playing the field, pls delete me. Thank you.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Henley-on-Thames, Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Other | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district RG9 (Henley-on-Thames) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
49 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox; Sikh |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
Some sensual satin lingerie |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Romance; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Music; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Canoeing; Cycling; Flying / Gliding; Golf; Hiking; Horse Riding; Martial arts; Mountain biking; Pool; Rowing; Running; Skiing; Snooker; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Religious attendance: |
Once a week |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Enjoying the comforts of home |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |