In Her Own Words
About her
Hello,
Why should people get to know you? Hmm…Nobody “should do anything” but if you “want” to get to know me I’d be happy to chat. I’m thoughtful, kind, intelligent, loyal and very independent. I’m an Artist, so very creative and I'm a do’er - I get on with things. I love the countryside so it would be nice to find someone who wants to go for walks (not hikes) and I love animals so an animal lover would be perfect too. I love to dance and laugh so someone with a good sense of humour and maybe someone who wants to learn to dance would be fun. I love the theatre, plays, comedy, music events and also like to sit in a cosy pub with a glass or 2 of wine. Don’t mind getting tiddly drunk and being daft but blind drunk is really unattractive and screams of sadness or issues. I’m looking for someone genuine, warm, open, funny and kind. Someone with integrity and nothing to hide. Someone tactile who is openly warm and affectionate but who knows when I need space to breathe or think. I am a genuine lady, I have never cheated and would never do so, but if you’re a clingy jealous type I’m not for you as I do need space and often that has been misinterpreted. I do not lie and cannot abide lies - being able to trust and being trustworthy are important. I want to find someone who understands how to reciprocate love, one of those relationships where we look after each other and really truly enjoy each others company and conversation. I’m looking for an easy balance with someone who enjoys life and is grateful to be alive. Someone who errs on optimistic. Thank you for reading this x
About her ideal match
I’d like to find a tall intelligent man who thinks for himself. Someone who doesn’t just blindly believe whatever the media serves up. You have to believe in equal rights and that women are just as smart as men or we will not get along. Mutual respect and understanding is important. You have to be someone who would stand up for people in need if you are able. Some words that are important to me are words like integrity, honour, dignity, kindness, loyalty, fierce, passionate & courage. But on the flip side you have to be someone who loves to laugh and enjoy yourself. Not afraid to be a bit daft at times. I want a man my life who is relaxed within himself, confident but far from arrogant and controlling. I guess what I really want is a best friend that I love to bits and someone who I feel safe with and can laugh until it hurts x
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Dorking, Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
55 - 67 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
6' 0" (182cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Quiet; Sarcastic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; Punk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fantasy; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; Sculpting; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Camping; Dance; Flying / Gliding; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Sailing; Scuba diving; Skiing; Snorkeling; Surfing; Swimming; Walking; Weight training; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Flirting |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Anarchic |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |