In Her Own Words
About her
Warm, approachable, sometimes shy, but always courageous. I'm creative, curious, and emotionally intelligent.
I've spent the last decade focussed on raising my son and building a life.. and now feel that I would like to share my life with another adult
About her ideal match
I would like to meet a man who is emotionally intelligent and able to communicate honestly. I value honesty, loyalty and integrity above all others. I also value humour, being able to laugh through life's dark times.
I guess a deal-breaker for me, would be to find a man who is happy to let me just be me, and not try to change me.. acceptance.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Southend-on-Sea, Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
52 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regularly | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district SS1 (Southend-on-Sea) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
51 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Time |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Easygoing; Faithful; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Moderation; Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Medium; Curly; Wild |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; Navel ring; More piercings; Several tattoos |
Date activities: |
Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Mystery |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Knitting; Meditation; Music; Painting; Reading; Sculpting; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Boxing; Chess; Fishing; Football (Soccer); Martial arts; Pool; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Indian; Italian; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream home: |
Other |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Socialist |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |