In His Own Words
About him
I messaged a good friend of 40 years to tell her I’d taken the ‘risk’ of joining an online dating service and asked her to WhatsApp message me how she’d describe me, as I kind of guessed that might be better than a self-description, she said: “Honest, loyal, reliable, , excellent cook. Busy ……loves animals, a poet in the making, exciting and funny if a tad barking 😂🤣😆” (and then she added ‘good luck sunshine!’
About his ideal match
I’d say I’m seeking someone who is relaxed and fun to be with, who mixes easily and readily with others, but wouldn’t necessarily want to be ‘on my arm’ all the time, so someone who is independent and likes to both eat out and to socialise, maybe would like to share cooking duties at home….or sit back and be cooked for!
I’m not currently a National Trust member, but as I like to drive and visit different locations in my, and surrounding counties for days out and walks, I suspect with someone fun to share time with I might add historic building viewing to my list!
When younger I was a keen club rugby player and later a distance runner, I’ve only fairly recently brought to a halt to my road cycling, so if you’ve some sort of sporty background we might be more likely to be compatible, and if you still participate in your sport - we meet up after - simples! 😉
If you DON’T like sport, that would certainly NOT be a dealbreaker as apart from gym visits, I now limit my sports activities to table tennis only😊… that should help you keep up!
You WILL require a sense of humour!
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Dorchester (Sherborne), Dorset, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
70 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
6' 0" (183cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Private school | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district DT9 (Sherborne) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
61 - 71 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Optimistic; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Hair style: |
Short |
Facial hair: |
None |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; History; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Meditation; Music |
Sport involvement: |
A regular competitor |
Sports: |
Cycling; Rugby; Weight training; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
French; Indian; Italian; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |





