In Her Own Words
About her
My friends and family would describe me as a genuine, loyal, kind and caring person, with a good sense of humour and who’s not afraid to try new experiences or take myself too seriously.
I enjoy reading, listening to music, movies, history, museums, musical theatre and walks in beautiful places.
I am an eternal optimist and believe as one door closes another one opens. Looking to open a new door and see where it leads.
About her ideal match
I am looking for a best friend who is honest, caring and treats people with kindness and respect. Someone who is happy in their own skin and who is not afraid to be authentic and emotionally open. Someone who can not only communicate but can also comprehend.
Although an initial attraction and some common interests are necessary, I believe strong relationships are built on mutual respect, support, commitment and trust. The little things mean so much more than grand gestures.
What Her Friends Say
Hopefullyoptomistic hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Cambridge, Cambridgeshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Ask me later | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Labour / Construction | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district CB24 (Cambridge) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
49 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 6" (199cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; Balding | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Celibacy; Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Medium; Long; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Jazz; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I prefer listening to the radio |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; War |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Photography; Reading; Sewing; Singing |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Rugby; Swimming; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |