In His Own Words
About him
I love laughter. I like making people laugh. I love talking about anything. I like learning new things. I’m not practical. I’m better with words than I am handy. I need alone time too.
I have three adult children who are making their own way in the world. I stay involved in their lives.
I have changed from a social care career in the public sector to being a freelance teacher of English as a second language. I work online.
About his ideal match
Calm but with passion for what is right between people and in the world.
(Mostly) Secure in themselves. But we all have have traumas and insecurities.
Loves conversations and laughter.
Open to exploring new ideas, experiences. and the world.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Dundee, Angus, Scotland | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Public sector | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 300 miles of postcode district DD5 (Dundee) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
50 - 62 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Greying; Grey | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Food / Catering; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Home maker; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Honesty; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Short; Curly; Wild |
Eyesight: |
I wear bifocals |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Latin; World |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
History; Sci-Fi; Travel |
TV habits: |
I prefer listening to the radio |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Independent; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Photography; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I don't like pets |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |
