In Her Own Words
About her
I keep kind and honest people in my life for a long time.
I enjoy nature & I am a woman who is quite literally an Earth Goddess. My energy is loving strength and grace, which I foraged for, and gloriously earned during my life on this earth. You must not be afraid of me; in every human being lives strength AND vulnerability.
If you appreciate intelligence, we will have so many happy times together.
I love a slow pace of life with time to enjoy long walks in all weathers.
My kind of comedy is The I.T. Crowd, Inside Number 9, What They Do In The Shadows, Spaced, Black Books (if they had asked me I would have married Bill Bailey OR Dylan Moran).
What else, that might lighten the mood? Well, I can still Hopscotch & skip, AND I can bounce on a trampoline. I absolutely love Bats swooping down above my head when Bill & I are on a 'Bedtime Walk' from our one bedroom council flat! Bill likes sleeping with me but we never 'go all the way' - he gets jealous when I apply makeup so he might bite your leg off if you try to kiss me - still, if you truly love me you will be popping for your prosthetic without a 2nd thought.
I never wrote that novel, finished redrafting my play, published my poems, & never found a person whom I was truly loved by. I never took up dancing & was never held so close we almost became one. I died not knowing how special I was & my gravestone said " She didn't quite make it & she didn't keep trying".
If you are still reading (after the Council Flat bit) - during lockdown I combined two recipes, plus a bit of my own magic, & created the BEST Corn Bread you are likely to EVER have tasted. It has to be served warm. Because I am poor, I cooked it in my 25 year old slow cooker with broken handle & with loose screws floating around the heating element.
About her ideal match
You don't have to be sensational at anything, or an award winning Super Hero, you don't have to be Spartacus, or Bruce Willis in Die Hard, or Terminator, or even Terminator 2, or any number of exceptional figures of Heroism. But I will like you a lot if you are loyal, easy going, generous, funny, intelligent, nature loving, honest, thoughtful, an adventurer, organised, courageous in the presence of love, sensitive, and even, possibly spiritual. You can have been hurt, betrayed, let down, disregarded and grief stricken; because we are all wounded, at some level of our being, but we are never completely broken, or without a friend - and friendship is always the best place to begin.
So please do not think you have to be perfect, or pretend to be perfect in my presence. However, you do need to be naturally able to share most of my values, because I believe, if we are very similar on that front, we will be able to share a good life together. For now though, a friendly coffee together to see if we gel, will be all that is needed.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Clitheroe, Lancashire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Red | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Struggling | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district BB7 (Clitheroe) | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age range: |
44 - 55 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 6" (167cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Further education | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Honesty; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
Other |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Reading; Sewing; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Camping; Cycling; Hiking; Swimming; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Indian; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Labour |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |