In His Own Words
About him
The years pass by fast, but, for me, it’s never too late to meet someone special. I’m youthful in spirit, fit and healthy, thoughtful and kind, and a romantic at heart. My photos are recent, with photos 1, 3, & 5 taken in July 2025.
Home is my garden - a place of azaleas, rhododendrons, magnolias - and my favourite spot is under the quince tree where I sit, relax, and dream, hopefully, of meeting you.
Travelling widely over the years - for example, to Australia and New Zealand, South Africa, Reunion, Argentina and Brazil, the Falkland Islands, Canada and the USA - has given me a deep appreciation for people, culture, and the joy of shared experiences.
I’m a retired university professor who still writes, speaks, and occasionally appears on radio and TV - photos 3 is from a tv documentary due to be broadcast in France and Germany this year - but I’m no dusty academic.
I enjoy laughter, warmth, and making everyday moments feel special.
About his ideal match
I’d love to meet someone who values family and enjoys walking, eating out, National Trust gardens, music and theatre trips, or simply being together doing nothing at all.
If something here makes you smile, just say “Hi”. Let’s meet, talk, and see if that spark appears when our eyes meet. And if you enjoy dancing — or fancy a waltz or jive in the kitchen — I’m your man.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Guildford, Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
82 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
6' 0" (183cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Europe; North America; Australia; New Zealand | ||
Location: |
Berkshire; Dorset; Gloucestershire; Hampshire; Hertfordshire; Surrey; West Sussex; Wiltshire (England, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
59 - 80 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 5' 11" (181cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite colour: |
Black |
Hair style: |
Short; Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Country & Western; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Music; Painting; Politics; Reading; The arts; Writing books |
Sports: |
Athletics; Dance; Field Hockey; Motorsport; Running; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; German; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |







