In His Own Words
About him
I recently heard that "happiness is like an orgasm, if you think about it too much, it goes away. Aim make someone else happy and you might get some as a side effect." The last sentence struck a chord with me. To keep things in perspective, I am always mindful of a quote by Albert Einstein: "not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that's counted truly counts".
I have a kind heart and it's firmly in the right place. I am a caring, affectionate, and compassionate person who believes in touching people's lives. I was recently compared to a honey bee, someone who works hard solely for the benefit of others!
I am intelligent, highly educated, cultured, talented, well travelled, and very tactile. I do everything with a passion but I am still easy to get on with. I believe anything in life is achievable if you put your mind and enough effort into it.
A few years ago I took an early retirement from a big multinational company to peruse other interests and enjoy what life has to offer. I have always played the violin and I consider myself an accomplished violinist. I also did ballet in my youth, so a couple of years ago I started learning Argentine Tango to bring the two together. It has become my new found passion and I absolutely love it. Through Tango I have discovered how romantic one can be; embracing a woman in my arms, dancing to a beautiful piece of music that you don't want to end.
I don't think I look too bad either, friends have described me as too good to be on the shelf! Talking about shelves, I'm also a dab hand at DIY but I know you are not looking for a handy man:-). I'm a regular gym user, keeping fit and (jokingly) trying to achieve "Daniel Craig's" body! Please don't get excited, I'm no where near it but I will continue trying.
Finally, I am well mannered and fit easily into any social situations, I am the type you would be comfortable to introduce to your family and friends:-). Come and say hello and decide for yourself. It takes two to tango and I am certainly up for it.
About his ideal match
I'm looking for someone with a 'good' heart, not just a functioning heart. Someone who gives me butterflies. Somesone who makes my heart skip a beat every time I see her. Someone who is honest, caring, ambitious, intelligent and is easy to get on with.
You may know of a Japanese art called 'Kintsugi', it's a process by which broken pottery is repaired using gold leaves or gold dust with the view that the object ends up more beautiful than what it was originally. I am looking for that 'gold' person to complete me.
A good sense of humor is also highly appreciated, you can never have enough laughter in your life.
To me looks are part of the chemistry, so without your photos it will be hard to judge.
I know you are out there, through this website or by other means I will find you! Put your hand up now and make it easy for me:-)
Deal breaker would be passive people, no passengers please.
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About him
Country of origin: |
Ask me later | |
Location: |
Romsey, Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
66 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
6' 0" (183cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
53 - 58 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 5" (164cm) - 5' 9" (176cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
Short; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Latin; Opera |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Mystery |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Acting; Healthy living; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; Shopping; The arts; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've lost count |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |