In His Own Words
About him
People who know me would describe me as compassionate, caring, loving, empathetic, grounded, witty, open, romantic at heart. and above all a good listener. I’m calm and passionate, an extroverted-introvert, confident and quiet, open-minded with a strong will and strong opinions (though I strive to share those in a respectful way that encourages dialogue instead of a need to be right all the time). I’m a dreamer and level-headed, spontaneous and I thrive on novelty but I take my time to carefully consider life decisions. Without a doubt, I would like to believe that I have a kind, compassionate and nurturing soul. I try to live a healthy lifestyle, prioritizing life pleasures, like good food and wine, seeking beauty in art, design and nature, fun, play, adventure and sharing the good times with the people close to me. I would like to think that I have oodles of emotional intelligence, so my conscious mind is more at work than my subconscious mind. I also have a stable temperament which has served me very well over the years. I don't easily get swayed emotionally or offended by people.
I have lived and worked in Canada, India, Singapore and the US besides the UK. I am a doctoral research scholar at a London University and passionate about what I do and the people I work with. A voracious reader, I have an eclectic range of interests outside of my profession that stretches from politics, quantum theory, philosophy, international history, technology, art and home decoration to music and the performing arts. Oh, I almost forgot, I enjoy cooking - more so in the company of and for my potential partner.
I also really love being part of a partnership, especially with someone that shares my curiosity about the world, motivation for fun and adventure, love of life and thirst for self-knowledge and growth. If you read this far and think it sounds like we could be a good match, feel free to reach out.
About his ideal match
Smart, educated, genuine, giving, caring and compassionate individual with a zest for life and a constructive world view that seeks to make things better.
Someone looking for a committed long-term relationship, passionate about life and who loves to travel. Would want to engage in delightful and enriching conversations about anything interesting under the sun. Someone keenly interested in exploring more of everything London has to offer - the galleries, live music, restaurants, book festivals and the art scene.
My partner need not share all my interests but should be compatible with my values. True love should blossom and be nurtured for it to grow into a stronger bond. I believe that in any relationship, this would take time. Physical attraction is somewhat important, more important is the warmth and chemistry. As they say, beauty is skin deep, so genuine love lasts longer in relationships that are built on trust, mutual admiration and respect for each other.
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About him
Country of origin: |
India | |
Location: |
Hounslow (Chiswick), London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
6' 0" (183cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Yes | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Science / Engineering / Research | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 10 miles of postcode district W4 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
34 - 54 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Realistic; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Smooth |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Romance; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Music; Politics; Reading; Woodwork; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Cycling; Mountain biking; Running; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Rest Less Dating: |
Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
